Being in a relationship with a narcissist can be one of the most confusing and frustrating things! After years of experiencing Narcissistic Abuse, and going through my own recovery I decided to become a Life Coach. My life was already challenging enough but my decision to start a business to help victims in recovery made my life a whole lot more difficult. I again became a target and victim. I was used, my business was used by various people for every reason possible including their relationships, divorces, kids and any other benefits they could get. I was lied to and manipulated, emotionally abused, mentally tortured, threatened, had property destroyed, was subjected to endless flying monkeys and smear campaigns and numerous attacks of verbal abuse. My own family and extended family, friends and strangers all contributed for 15 months at least and still going! My phone, computer and accounts were tampered with which led to my e-mails, accounts and passwords all being unsafe! After months of abuse confusion and lies, I had the police called on me and I was taken to a homeless shelter with the explanation "If you're mother wants you out, you have to leave." I called a number for a shelter that the police officer gave me to see if there was a bed available and spent the next month and a half there trying to figure out what happened and why! This is only the bare beginning of my story after becoming a Life Coach!

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Your self esteem is their worst nightmare! You thriving and being happy without them takes away their narcissistic supply and they don't like that. Your misery fuels them so as long as they can keep you confused, abused and focused on them, YOU don't have the strength, energy or will to fight for yourself! This is twenty four hours, seven days a week for some people who usually suffer behind closed doors because they can't explain what this abuse is to someone, or they have no idea who can help them or how. 

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